😜😜WHAT A WEEKEND! My best bud @davidjamesseed came down and no word of a lie, I haven’t laughed so much in my life! We were just being silly the whole time (as I think you can tell from our FANTASTIC singing on my stories). I think it’s so important to have mates that you can just be stupid around and not care what anyone thinks, something I’m appreciating more and more. I used to really care about that sort of shit, but really, it’s so great to just be able to let go, be your ridiculous selves and not give a fuck what people think. I was listening to @chessiekingg on @fearnecotton Podcast talk about her Instagram vs Reality posts, keeping up appearances, and it’s exactly the same, behind all these silly filters, were all just a bunch of goof balls!! So this week gang, have some fun and BE SILLY! 😜😜
Woken up and had a look at the view. This city.. full of ominous energy.
Disclaimer: I have been receiving several unpleasant messages the last 2 days here. Some were forcing messages, very unsettling. some hurtful ones. and many were complaints about the posts that I have been posting. I’d like to put everything on the table and get things done with. I am not here to fight any of you. I am a young single gay man who is looking for a connection. Someone understanding and single and thoughtful just as much as I can be. If you are none of those we are friends and that’s it. I’m not interested in anything else. I am obviously here for reasons I genuinely hope I find meaning them. I am not here to be lewd with you. I am not here for you to force yourself and your messages into me. I am not here to say yes to you or obey your rules and your desires in anyway. I am looking for a meaning to make me stop posting my pics for good. If this happened to me. I would be really happy. If it didn’t yet, then I’m not losing hope. Maybe someday I will earn happiness. And I don’t see a reason why I shouldn’t look at it that way. However, please know that I have boundaries and I do have certain rules that I am sticking to no matter what. Please respect this. I am not here to fight any of you. I don’t have the time and energy for that. And I am absolutely not here to be your plaything. If I post a pic of myself then I post it because I wanted to. Not to interest you. or if I happened to like your post that doesn’t mean in anyway that I want to have sex with you. I simply liked the pic because I liked what I saw. It’s nice to see. I am in a very secluded society and I barely call myself a social person. So social media helps me in ways I can’t describe. It’s like a window I’m looking through. Just like the window I’m looking at right now.
I am not here to fight. Be nice, be kind. Don’t make me report.
Most or almost all reactions we get as a family in public are positive to even ecstatic. Yesterday I was pushing my mom in her wheelchair on the streets of Shanghai while Ella was sitting on her lap. Remco was walking a bit behind us. Suddenly a white middle aged man with a thick American accent decided to follow us frantically. And even stopped us. When Remco approached, the guy asked Remco if he was with us for his reassurance. He was worried. Because he said “we look different...”. Really?? You see a group of people with different skin colors amongst them, in this case a happy family, and your alarm bells go off?? What is wrong with you?! Remco and I were both baffled and after Remco gave him a F.Y. look he quickly apologized and ran off. Still can’t believe this just happened. And of course it was a privileged white middle aged American guy. I would like to say the following to him and to all ignorant people like him. Take off your racist blindfolds. Stop your obsession on skin color and educate yourselves with some manners. We are a colorful family and we are here to stay. Our future is looking very bright. If you want to make America great again by using racism, I suggest you to build a big giant wall somewhere in a desert surrounding yourselves and the likes of the KKK. Stay behind your precious wall and stop bothering the rest of the world with your stupidity. Zero tolerance for racism, ignorance and hate. This rainbow family keeps shining bright in Shanghai 🌈 Picture by the amazing @alina_krasieva Thank you and have a nice colorful day. ....