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Unfortunately, realising that he doesn’t deserve you doesn’t help get rid of the pain. But it certainly gives you that little spark of anger you can hold on to. Until there is no more love left.
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After a rough day at work, financial worries and trying get over my x-lover, soccer just wasn't enough to make it feel right.  Moonlight hike up Tully Mt.

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Is he out of your bed, but still in your head?🤯 Find out WHY your friends are moving on faster than you and take the first step in moving forward!
I remember telling him about an incredibly cruel and heart breaking divorce an acquaintance of mine was going through. I’m talking extra crazy. This person’s ex was doing anything and everything to hurt her and using their kids in the process. He even left a good job for a low paying job just so she’d have to pay child support.
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I felt so bad for her. I told my narc about it and how my heart hurt for her and the kids. He tried to find a way to side with the ex husband.
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For some reason this is one of the moments with him that sticks out the most to me. I’m not sure why. It was toward the end of our relationship. Maybe it just serves as confirmation for what I’d already begun to suspect.
Wish I could get a little un-drunk so I could un-call you
At five in the morning, I would un-fuck you ❤️🖕🏻🤷🏻‍♀️ #undrunk 
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I’ve been thinking about you,
But not in the way you’d think.
I can feel myself not chasing you,
Not teasing myself anymore.
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When we said goodbye,
I didn’t know if I could
Really leave you, but I tried
And trying is what I’m thankful for.
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Thank you for pushing me away.
Thank you for letting me breathe again.
And thank you, God, for the clay
You breathed into, 
To make such a wonderful friend.
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I mean im probably still a demon, but a stronger one! 😈... Still idk why im suddenly posting quotes now! Yay!

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This. My narc’s favorite manipulation was ignoring me to the point of an outburst and then calling me needy, possessive, and “jealous of his hobbies”. I remember during one of his deployments I wouldn’t hear from him for days on end but then find him talking to people on Facebook. It was devastating. Somehow he managed to twist that into yet another situation where I was the one apologizing. It’s unbelievable to look back on now - what I went through...what I put up with.
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Breakup depression is so odd. You can be fine for days, even weeks and then BOOM!
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My narc never specifically called me bipolar but he constantly acted as if I was behaving irrationally each time he drove me to my wits end. Once I reacted to him pushing all my buttons, he’d say “cut the theatrics”, “you’re overreacting”, “why do you do this to yourself?”, “put your crazy away”. In those moments, I always felt so stunned and confused.
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Y’all I’m so so sorry I’ve been inactive recently but I’m going to start posting daily now so yea hope u enjoy I just needed a lil break🌻♥️
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These have helped me loads with getting over a crush I realised I was too good for🥰🧚‍♂️ so I hope these help y’all
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We went from 2 AM calls to zero communication,
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I think one of the reasons I didn’t realize he was an all around bad person was because I excused some of his worst behavior on account of it happening “when we were young”.
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I thought we were both maturing and moving toward a common goal. Only one of us was.
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He began acting somehow even less mature than he did all those years ago. I wanted a partner in life, not a delinquent teenage son.
If you’re having trouble trying to squeeze your narcissist into one category or another, have a look at this Sam Vaknin article. They can change forms. (Link in bio)
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I believe this was the case with my narc. He seemed to transition from a cerebral narcissist to a somatic narcissist when dealing with a major life change - specifically one that caused him narcissistic injury.
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Ex. Losing his job was a huge blow to his self esteem so he took to suddenly being overtly crude and sexual, even bragging about sexual conquests from 20 years ago.
I recently read this on pairedlife.com and wanted to pass it along. The highlighted portion really stood out to me. My ex NEVER seemed to understand that his behavior contributes to his circumstances. Whether it was regarding hurting my feelings or not seeing his children or losing his job - he seemed incapable of understanding that his own choices played a role in his circumstances. Maybe he really is incapable of understanding that.
Kicking him out of my head is the hardest part but I’m working on it...one day at a time.
This. The devaluation happened so quietly and intermittently that it took me awhile to realize how my self esteem was starting to plummet or how I constantly questioned my own thoughts and decisions. Any negative feeling I felt, he told me I did to myself.
Not gonna lie, I think I’ll always have some small part of me that wishes things were different and that he’d change back into who he was in the beginning and stay that way.
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I’m learning to accept that this feeling lives in me and probably always will, but it’s a feeling that’s not to be focused on or acted on.
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He once accused me of tearing MYSELF back down each time we’d transition from a love bombing stage to devaluation.
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It’s time to change myself into a happy person that he’ll never know.
No word of a lie, within days of my last post, my ex messaged me.  Telling me that he’d be ok seeing me at an event our friends were at and that it would be good to see me again. 
How predictable. 
I didn’t go. 
Not that I didn’t want to. Hear me out; there was a part of me that wanted to go to show him how well I was doing without him. 
Then I thought about it, and let this sink into my soul. 
He already knows. 
That’s why he’s reaching out cause he can feel it happening. The last of the chords are getting cut. 
And it feels pretty great. In fact, it feels pretty powerful and that’s all I want to feel now. 
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I’ve made this connection so many times. I’d feel like he was draining me of anything good inside of me. I’d break away sometimes and not speak to him for a couple weeks. We’d make up and I’d feel renewed and hopeful again. My fresh hope just became his new fuel and he’d drain me right back down. It’s such a vicious cycle.
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Peaks and valleys. Sending love to anyone having a valley day. ✌️🖤
It was especially difficult going from the way he showered me with attention during love bombing to him being outright angry at me for ever wanting to talk at all.
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During love bombing, if I hadn’t texted him back quickly, it was “where’s my baby at?”
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During devaluation, I could not text or call him for an entire day and he didn’t even notice.
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Anyone else go through this?
I guess we had different definitions of happiness. Mine was peace and togetherness. His was chaos and destruction. 🖤✌️
I literally can’t think of a single thing more that I could have done for him during those ten years.
Like was he even real? Or did he lie about that too? Once you’re out of the relationship and can finally think clearly, it’s amazing to see how much suspicious behavior you chose to ignore for the sake of keeping the peace. I don’t beat myself up for the times I chose to stay quiet though. I know it was the good in me hoping there was still good in him. There wasn’t and I got out. That’s all that matters.✌️🖤
Got a haircut and dyed it. Make up on and feeling fresh. #gettingoverhim #newhair #jeffreestarcosmetics #alienpalette #purple #neoneyes
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A beautiful sunrise to start the day. Slowly feeling grateful for the end of the toxic relationship I was in and happily looking forward to all the wonderful things that will now have the chance to come into my life #sunrise #tuesday #healing #toxicrelationships #nomotetears #gettingoverhim #narc
How ‘bout you?
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My narc’s favorite game was to take me through spells where he’d neglect me to the point that of being at my wits end trying to understand and stop the way I was being treated.
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He’d dismiss all of my concerns and tell me he wasn’t treating me any kind of way and I was imagining things.
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Once I’d lose my patience and voice any of my concerns, I was “crazy”, “possessive”, “too needy”. You name it.
So. Many. Apologies. It got to the point that he wouldn’t apologize for anything anymore. Instead he would tell me, “you said sorry’s are useless”.
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I did say that and his were.
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Healthy people apologize and then don’t do the thing they’re sorry for anymore.
It was amazing how he so easily switched from having a great memory to having none at all depending on which mask he was wearing.
So many times I felt like he was just looking for ways to hurt me, to keep me sad, to make me beg. He would always deny it. In fact, he would deny it in such a way that I felt guilty for even thinking it.
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But it turned out to be true. He was a narcissist and that was his trademark.
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It hurts to lose someone you envisioned your whole life with....but it feels good to be so certain in your choice to walk away alone.
Oh don’t worry, they didn’t mean that as a bad thing! You see, now that they’re love bombing you again, words like “crazy” and “dramatic” were meant as compliments! 🙄🤚
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