How we people are being targeted for no reason. Sometimes it is so easy for all of us to judge the other person without knowing their grievance. Amrinder Bajaj has authored a beautiful story regarding the above lines.
Amrita, the protagonist of the story 'For a Love of a Man' was taunted and tortured from all aspects by everyone--men and women, until she chose peace and salvation as her 'mentor'. She makes us introduce with three kind of men-- one, her chikdhood love,then her emotional love, followed by some sexual predators, then comes a man who never love her. I finally came to an end of this book regarding different colour of womanhood that has been shown through the eyes of Amrita-- a silent struggler, a sexual target. She personally, taught me that every person has a hell within them to deal. Also, how we people become a judgemental fool without knowing the grievance of the others. This book is a beautiful example of everything. The story begins with Amrita who never made a choice for her own, even if she willed 'if' thing kept ruining her every time. She became submissive to everything due to which she was taken for granted and once she stood for herself world went against her--- even her mom didn't support her. A well accomplished doctor who had a choice to live in her own terms stood behind for sake of her family for which she paid a heavy price. Usually we too encounter with such situation in order to keep some loving people happy.
It is good think about others, but when your value is being taken for granted 'stop' there and then, give yourself time and carry a habit of saying no'. Loved the plot which were emotional and disturbing. Particularly the poem that she wrote. Overall it is an unfulfilled desire of her which she could have achieved but due to 'others' she almost doomed herself. @kala.e.kitaabi rates it 4.5/5.
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This is the doctrine I grew up with, to do unto others as I would want them do unto me.
I treat people with respect and go out of my way to make people feel comfortable, but I realise that others don’t treat me the same way as I treat them.
I try to give people benefit of a doubt, or make excuses for their actions, but it gets me nowhere.
True it actions cause me hurt and headache, and when I pull away, they say I’m too proud.
My conclusion is, I rather be proud and be a bad ass bitch than to be taken advantage of, or to be disrespected.
Mothers have a lot to deal with, in respect to kids and husbands than to add irrelevant outside garbage.
My motto now is - I treat you the same way you treat me.
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#happysunday 🌸 You can’t help everyone nor should you try...I enjoy helping other people become more successful in life, giving advise, and trying to show people that there is more to life than the situations they’re in and constantly complaining about it...BUT what I’ve learned is that you can’t help people that don’t want to be help, you can’t motivate people that aren’t SELF-motivated. It will only frustrate you and then at that point you are no longer helpful.
You can’t make people do what they don’t want to do...they have to want it!
Stop trying to bring everyone on your journey! They have their own journey to follow and it may not be on the same timeline as yours...focus on YOU and where you are going, don’t slow yourself down trying to bring everyone with you.
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A lot of people won't succeed because they are scared.
They over analyze the situation.
They come up with a million excuses.
They never do the thing they're afraid to do.
They let their emotions take control.
They tell themselves they aren't ready.
They tell themselves they don't deserve it.
Why? Because they overthink it.
But when you overthink things, you lose.
When you want to go for a run, do you think about how to run?
or you just go and run?
You get what you tolerate.
Take action, and move forward.
TAG someone who needs to read this.